The First Wife’s Club: Gail O’Grady Cast as Conrad’s First Wife on Revenge! Melodie December 13, 2013 2 Comments Veteran television actress Gail O'Grady (NYPD Blue) just booked a stint on ABC's Revenge, reports E! Online. O'Grady is set to portay Conrad Grayson's (Henry Czerny) first wife, and will cause a whole world of trouble in The Hamptons. She will first appear in Episode 13 of the series.